Why Do I Have To Pray For My Enemies?

Matthew 5:44 (KJV) – "But I say unto you, Love your enemies, bless them that curse you, do good to them that hate you, and pray for them which despitefully use you, and persecute you."

It’s one of the hardest things God calls us to do—praying for and doing good to people who constantly come against us. Human nature wants to fight back, hold grudges, and let anger take control. But Jesus taught something radically different: love your enemies, bless them, and pray for them.

This isn’t about ignoring the pain they’ve caused—it’s about choosing obedience to God over retaliation, trusting that His justice is greater than ours.

1. Prayer Changes Hearts—Including Yours

When you pray for your enemies, you’re not just asking God to deal with them—you’re also allowing Him to soften your heart.

Romans 12:20-21 (KJV) – "Therefore if thine enemy hunger, feed him; if he thirst, give him drink: for in so doing thou shalt heap coals of fire on his head. Be not overcome of evil, but overcome evil with good."

Prayer keeps bitterness from settling in. It helps release resentment and ensures that your actions stay aligned with God’s will instead of letting anger take over.

2. God Handles Justice Better Than You Can

Sometimes we want to fight back or seek revenge, but God sees everything and knows how to deal with people in a way that brings true justice.

Romans 12:19 (KJV) – "Dearly beloved, avenge not yourselves, but rather give place unto wrath: for it is written, Vengeance is mine; I will repay, saith the Lord."

Instead of carrying the weight of revenge, trust that God handles all things perfectly.

3. It’s a Reflection of Christ’s Love

Jesus Himself prayed for those who persecuted Him, even as He was crucified.

Luke 23:34 (KJV) – "Then said Jesus, Father, forgive them; for they know not what they do."

If Jesus could extend grace and forgiveness even in His suffering, then as His followers, we are called to do the same. It’s not about pretending the pain didn’t happen—it’s about reflecting His love, even when it’s hard.

Final Encouragement: Your Reward Is Greater

God sees every struggle, every attack, and every act of obedience. When you choose to pray and do good, He blesses you in ways your enemies never could.

Galatians 6:9 (KJV) – "And let us not be weary in well doing: for in due season we shall reap, if we faint not."

Stay faithful, trust His process, and know that your obedience has a reward.

Dr. D. Devon Griffin, Author

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